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| Angel of Deceit Posts: 45/92 |
Thats pretty funny. I also know that some people eventually go out with their stalkers. A friend of mine had a stalker for 5 months. Now she goes out with him...pretty funny ya. |
| Makura Posts: 298/1555 |
My mother is currently stalking me and I'm getting a restraining oreder against her. I've spied on a few people just because I was plotting their death but ohter than that I've never really been obsessed with someone enough to stalk them. (Jin is too far away  ) |
| AngelBayB49 Posts: 59/87 |
Ahem Pockets, why do I have a feeling I know which stalker in my life you are talking about.... The one both you & Cryus want to just kill. |
| Pockets Posts: 283/838 |
I've never had anyone stalk me but people have stalked friends that I have and my fiance. It bothers me that there's very rarely much of anything I can do about it cause really they're not breaking any laws. They're just being creepy and annoying.
Does anyone else find it frustrating that beating the shit out of the guy probably wouldn't really work and would then just get me in trouble when he called the police and charged me with assault and battery? |
| Bitmap Posts: 91/7838 |
The best way to get rid of a stalker is to just do things you wouldent do to get rid of them...for example
"Dont bathe" "Be a jerk" "Be a different person whom shes not used to" "Write her a disturbing letter" If she is that "Anime dreamer type who is butt ugly and dreams of a hot guy "Act like a sick sadist around her, but DONT HURT HER!" Just be someone your not, thats what I always do! |
| Xeoman Posts: 1137/11757 |
Yeah, it would just seem the best way to get rid of them, is to "ignore" them basically. |
| Belial Posts: 51/647 |
There's this guy at my school who follows me.. I ignore him when he calls out my name, because I know that if I reply to him, he'll just try to follow me around more. I don't even know this kid, other than his name, becaue he used to stalk my friend Robbie as well.. And it's not that he's a bad kid... he's just the epitomy of annoying people.. x.x |
| AngelBayB49 Posts: 54/87 |
I've had one very scary incident with a stalker when I ran the street team for that actor's band. This girl was so sweet at first. Then she constantly would email me, call me, even tried to find out where I live. When I wouldn't introduce her directly to the actor, or hook them up, she got VERY scary. I almost had to get a restraining order against her. |
| Rogue Posts: 223/11918 |
Heh, I've got quite a few. Severe and not so.
My most recent one is this guy that calls every now and then asking why we can't be more than friends. He got my number from someone in one of my editing classes since everyone is given everyone else's home numbers. Hell, I've had people who go on about how they don't like me and yet seem to be everywhere they know I'll be (i.e. show up at my work, the Rocky Horror Picture Show, my hang outs, or call me asking for things and so on) almost like they want to watch me all the time. The most severe case I've ever had was this guy that used to show up outside of my house in the middle of the night and stare through my bedroom window and call at all hours of the night, breathing heavily into the phone, occasionally describing what he wishes he could be doing at that moment. It's not as flattering as they think and really as awkward as stalkers can be, there are things that can be done to remedy them. |
| StickMan Posts: 58/185 |
Yeah... my ex-girlfriend... I don't really want to go too much into detail with that, quite scary... Anyone that I know in Michigan would probably know about that... *Shivers* |
| venomouslobster Posts: 60/444 |
Sympathy for the Stalker
some stalkers are merely stupid and deserve to be pummeled but some are just sick, this is a exerpt from a very poignant article describing the symptoms so perhaps you can understand these creepy creepy people just a little better Erotomania can be defined as a psychological disorder in which the afflicted relentlessly pursues the notion that the object of his/her affection reciprocates his/her romantic feelings and/or fantasies. This obsession with the desired individual continues long after that individual has asserted that he/she is not interested in pursuing a romantic relationship with the afflicted. Consequently, erotomaniacs tend to stalk their victims. It has been postulated that those who stalk suffer from a basic fault in their capacity to have relationships with others.Characteristic of the erotomaniac (generally across the board) are the following: irrationality, a tendancy toward impulsive actions, obsessiveness, paranoia, psychotic tendancies. Typically the erotomaniac shares certain behavioral characteristics consistent with that of a Borderline. The erotomaniac tends to begin with simple, subtle expressions of affection to reach the object of his/her desire which later spirals out of control and can lead to expressions of anger, rage, frusteration and violence when such gestures go ignored and the victims continues to assert lack of interest. Strangely the erotomaniac fails altogether to see the victim's lack of interest. The erotomaniac attributes lack of positive response to a littany of things. In the case of my stalker, Louise attributed her ex-husband (my boyfriend) taking a restraining order out against her to a belief that somehow I was behind the scenes manipulating him to do so in order to keep him from "recognizing his love for her" and "going back to her". Louise also wrote constant letters saying she knew I "had to be pregnant" because she didn't know why else he wouldn't be returning her calls and answering her threatening letters. Finally, the erotomaniac is psychotic and no longer in reality. Any reaction from the victim can be construed as a signal of approval. Returning to the case of my stalker, Louise believed the act of my boyfriend taking a restraining order out against her was somehow indicative of encouragement to continue to call and visit him and so she did continue, persisting even after countless arraignments, community service and jail time. and then there are people like me who have no real attachment to you, we just like to relax after a hard day of work by hiding in your bushes and humping your dog... |
| Stalker Posts: 5/14 |
Hey i am not a stalker... Oh yeah I'm Beth but im not a stalker... Damn you Dale!! I'm not very good at stalking.. But back to what Oni asked i have many stalkers. they follow me around school getting information for Neil my ex. Then he goes and spreads rumors about me which are true but if i wanted someone to know wut i was saying then i would tell them myself. I mean somethings are personal!! |
| Bitmap Posts: 85/7838 |
FREAKEN STALKER!!!!!
omg, I think beth is my stalker, she followed me onto this board oh my GOD!!!!! how annoying!  Just kidding beth.
But for real, I Dated this girl named Stephanie one time, I broke up with her for 3 reasons 1: She was creepy 2: She said the "L" word too early (like the first day...) 3: She is like the most innocent girl! Innocent girls will fvcking do anything you tell them to do, they are so naive and will freaking follow you WHEREVER YOU GO!!!!! When she comes up to CyberLANding, she peeps arounds corners and crap, and it really creeps me out.... "Im not in middle school anymore sweety im sorry...." |
| DarkGuardian Posts: 161/219 |
I had a stalker once... but it didn't last to long. Why would it when you beat the guy to a bloody pulp and crush his manhood so he can't reproduce. He left me alone after that small incident, and a short stay in the hospital. Whe I was questioned by the cops, I claimed self defense and it was true he had a knife on him so I got off but yeah just one stalker and if it ever happens again I would do exactly the same. |
| 01001000 Posts: 177/944 |
Nobody stalks me that I know of, and if they are, they do a very lousy job of trying to get to know me and piss me off beyond belief.
Stalkers are like 40 year old Clown Pornstars, they are very creepy, do strange things at night, they won't leave you alone, and then need to be kicked in the balls every so often. And I just made the term "Clown Pornstars" up incase anyone was wondering. |
| Angel of Deceit Posts: 10/92 |
Sorry i didnt put more into my 1st reply. School just let out and i had to leave. 
Anways, They dont come to my house or anything i just get emails from them. its wierd, and creeps me out not knowing if there a guy or gurl....hopefully there really cute girlz. |
| Xeoman Posts: 1095/11757 |
I've never had one, and if I did, I'd probably truly beat them up or something ...
I'm sure it's not such a common thing for guys though, compared to girls.  |
| Déesse Posts: 518/958 |
Originally posted by Elara hehe  yeah I know, my friends mother used to have a stalker, she did a course at uni and the guy got her number somehow and used to call her a lot on there home phone, then the next day he would make certain remarks towards her, but she couldn't do anything about it cause no one saw him around her, he used to wait till she was by herself, but I think she did call the police about the phone calls.
I hope next to have a stalker, they aren't very nice  |
| WhiteRose Posts: 246/1461 |
As far as I've known I've only had one and I've shared him with two other friends, thought I just found out he stalks just about anyone. Elara knows who I'm talking about. I was getting so paranoid that I had like five of my guy friends pretending to be my b/f when he was around, one of which was gay (really funny that one). It got to the point where he would just circle around us, so Elara and I would sing the Jaws song and pretty much nicked named him that. He doesn't do it anymore thought, thank the gods! |
| Elara Posts: 736/9736 |
They don't have to do that to be a stalker actually Deesse. They just have to follow you around a lot, call you alot, etc, when you don't want them too.
I've had a few stalkers in my life, but not for awhile. My one exboyfriend was stalking me last October and it scared the crap out of me because I was home alone one weekend. Got home from work at Shipwreck at about 4AM and I was too afraid to even turn on the lights to take a shower and get the makeup off in case he showed up. There is one guy now that turns up every so often and talks just to me, not getting the hint that I don't want to talk to him... I keep getting this weird vibe off him that makes me uncomfortable. I've always called it the "creepy stalker vibe"... but he hasn't really stalked me yet. |
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